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QAF (Queer as Folk): What Character Are You Attracted To?

For the past five seasons we, in America, or at least parts of it, have been in love with the men of Queer as Folk. Gay men, for once, had a revolutionary show that they could relate to. Lesbians got a little taste of themselves as well. No matter what character you could relate to, the majority of fans quickly became immersed in the lives of all of the characters on QAF.

We all watched every Sunday, thrilled at the prospect of a new show, and unable to wait to see what would happen next. Queer as Folk was revolutionary because the characters were excellent. They were people you could relate to, be attracted to, and even want to be with. They were your every day gay men. They are people you would want to meet if you could.

So, which one fits your needs? Which man do you think fits the profile of the man you are usually attracted to and can help you stay warm on those cold, cold evenings? The following article will offer you some insight on the main players of QAF. You can learn more about the men, the women - and even Debbie :) - to help you determine what type of personality you may be interested in.

Brian
Love him or hate him you can not ignore two facts about the Brian's of the world. First, you cannot help but be attracted to him in some way, and, second, your feelings for him will be passionate on some level. You will either support his actions, or you will not be able to stand his actions. He's sarcastic because he can be - but he's also a good friend if he will have you. He's a party boy in the best (or worst) way. He loves men and isn't afraid to show that, but he's also intelligent, successful, and good at everything he does. He dabbles in recreational drugs, and nine out of ten times you will be nothing more than a hot, sweaty fling. If that is what you are looking for in a man, then Brian is definitely the man for you. However, if you want something more stable you might want to just be friends… unless, of course, you're looking for that large, invigorating challenge that resides outside of the bedroom.

Justin
There is a Justin in every bunch, and you can't help but love him. He's the artistic type and generally, while younger, he is still equally as mature as those around him. He is a steady friend, and passionate when it comes to choosing the right lover for him. Of course, he can also have fun in all the right ways. He does not need a relationship to validate himself (like some men may), but he does want something beautiful and meaningful in his life. A Justin isn't afraid to lay it on the line for that special guy when the chance presents itself and he knows it's real.

Michael
Michael is the most adorable best friend you'll ever have. He can pass for straight if he wants to - but to you he is obviously gay. He's sweet, trustworthy, and makes a great friend. He's been through some struggles, as we all have, but overall he deserves the world. He may have been rebellious in his youth, but as he gets older expect to see a lovely house-husband emerge. Michael is the perfect person for snuggling, window shopping, and understanding phone calls or visits at three a.m. when you need a good shoulder.

Ben
Fit, trim, intelligent, and a decent human being, these are the things that sum up a Ben. The Ben's of the world always want to do what is right. This is true not only in the sense of what is right for them, but also for others, as well. With the ability to hold down a meaningful job, and to stand up for his beliefs, Ben makes a good role model and an excellent friend. If he loves you, no matter in what way, he will work to take care of you in any way that is possible. He will defend you - and the relationship you have together. Ben is an important man in his circle because he is a rarity. Ben is someone that everyone has the ability to learn something from. He is a genuine necessity in the gay community, much like Brian, but in a completely different way!

Emmett
Emmett is everyone's favorite gay boy. He has the ability to light up a party whether he is the one catering it, or not. A true gem in a field of dirt, he is cute, funny, and a real charmer on many levels. He gains pleasure from making other people feel good, which is something he does a lot. He always is there with advice, a helping hand, or some fabulous gourmet meal to offer you many of the things that most moms never could. Although many Emmett's may go through the, "Always a bridesmaid, never a bride" problems due to all the qualities we love him for, his impeccable fashion sense may lead him down the aisle yet. Unfortunately, Emmett makes such a good friend that often times you forget to look at the wonderful possibility of making this fantastic man much more than that.

Ted
Ted is the complex friend or acquaintance you have that you often wonder 'what the hell was he thinking'. He is someone that wants to be loved so desperately that he is willing to make some of the worst mistakes possible to feel a moment of acceptance. The Ted's of the world need a relationship to validate themselves, and whether this means trolling a gay husband Internet site, or the numerous clubs in the area, he will do what he needs to do. Nothing is off limits for a Ted because he has to be able to find love. The problem with Ted is he hasn't learned that he needs to find love for himself before he can stop destroying himself to find love. While not an amazing catch for a relationship, he is someone that will stand by his friends. As a friend it will be hard to watch him destroy himself when he is overlooking the most powerful love he will ever find - which is already inside him.

The Lesbians
Melanie and Lindsay are the QAF's resident lesbians. Although we are using that term loosely, they are easy to find in GLBT (gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender) circles.

Lindsay is bisexual though she claims she is a lesbian. She can live in a lesbian relationship but as her friend you may think that she is there because it is comfortable more than passionate. The Lindsay's of the world use their sexuality to get what they want. They feel power as well as love in relationships. The power is something they thrive on, but deep down they need the passion that they cannot get in a lesbian relationship. Therefore when the occasional sweaty, firm, and sexist man comes along she will use her power to be shown who is boss. This means he will put her in her place and she will claim the pleasure she does not have in her every day life. This works out fine, though, because there is pleasure in drama for Lindsay and apologizing for her "straight" discretions when she is truly a lesbian is always something she is happy to do. Unfortunately, as her friend this would mean you were forced to hear her out - of course, after the first time this would get old. Despite this, she does have her endearing qualities, such as mild artistic talents, quirky behaviors, and decent parenting skills.

Melanie on the other hand is the lesbian all good lesbians strive to be. It always makes you wonder when she ends up with a Lindsay how something like that could happen. Melanie is proud to be a lesbian, and understands that her womanhood is only enhanced by the need to take care of that special girl. She is strong, opinionated, and fierce in her loyalty. She is very protective of the one she loves and rarely, if ever, holds anything back. Actually, she is more likely to be overly passionate as opposed to blocking her feelings out. She works well in either the friend or the lover role, depending on your feelings, though she deserves to be with a lesbian because a threesome, with any man, is an insult to everything she stands for.

Debbie
Finally we have Debbie; if anything she deserves an honorable mention. If you know a Debbie you will smile just thinking about her. She is crass, rude, bordering on openly perverse, and very loveable. She is one of the most straight, supportive people you will find, and all gay men deserve a mother like her. She fights for your rights and convinces you to do the same. Despite some of her more obvious flaws she makes up for them all - and then some - by her protective, mothering nature and the security she offers you when you have no one to turn to.

Sadly, Queer as Folk has ended though it is a show that will never be forgotten. Eventually, there will be new shows that follow down the path that has been paved. However, Brian; Michael; Emmett; and Debbie have entered our hearts and homes - and whether we know people like them, or not, we will remember the lessons they have taught us for a long, long time.