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To Marry or Not to Marry and If So, Where?

With the gay marriage debates looming over us for some time it seemed only right that we brought up the question: for those of you in a committed relationship, should you marry or not? The debate seems to be split by both sides of the fence. There are some homosexuals that feel this is unnecessary, however, most agree that the option to marry should be open - should they choose it.

Whether you have considered actually going through with a traditional marriage, or not, many committed couples do prefer to have a ceremony of some sort to celebrate their love. Until recently the thought of actually being able to marry was somewhat unheard of. Today, though, the option is there in a somewhat limited possibility. The question now becomes: is marriage right for you?

For some people it may work out beautifully, however there are those other people who are just not ready to be married. It doesn't make them wrong mind you - it just means that marriage isn't suitable for them. If you have been in a committed, stable relationship for some time - and want to get married - there are going to be two conflicting thoughts amongst other people. First, some people will wonder why you need to get married if you have already proven your love, however others will see it as the most beautiful way to form a lasting bond.

While married heterosexuals are offered nearly 1,400 federal benefits these are things that homosexual couples will be denied - regardless of whether their marriages are deemed valid or not. However, if you are getting married for other reasons there is still a possibility for a very special day.

If you decide to get married and live in the United States you may be discouraged. Obviously, not all people can afford to travel all the way around the world to attend a wedding. This has led many gay men to some quick planning. Some of the most popular decisions lead couples to have a ceremony and reception in their area and go on a honeymoon where marriage is legal and they can tie the knot during their honeymoon in a private ceremony.

There are currently four countries where same sex marriage is widely accepted. Any of these spots would make lovely honeymoon destinations as well as give you lovely wedding options for small or large ceremonies.

· Belgium
· Canada
· Netherlands
· Spain

If you live in the states, are budgeting your money, and do not want to spend an exorbitant amount on airfare and other traveling expenses then take a week to visit Canada for your wedding. You could go to beautiful Toronto - or any number of spots depending on the honeymoon you are going for. Pridefest in Toronto is absolutely fabulous and makes a great spot to say, "I do". Of course, there are many other beautiful spots in Canada for knot tying ceremonies, and, ultimately, you should go wherever you and your partner will feel is most suitable for the both of you.

It's important to keep in mind why you are getting married. If it is to show your devotion many couples will opt for 'commitment ceremonies', which can, and do, turn out just as lovely as a traditional wedding. There will be no legal differences (until things change in the country) so - if that is your main motivation for marriage - it is definitely something to think about.

Either way marriage is something that many committed couples long to do. If you find that bond you may know that it is the bond that is important, and not any legal implications that come with it. Good luck in your decisions and should you choose to marry it will be one of the most magical days of your relationship.